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Wednesday, 10 December 2008

  • selfish?

    I have a great family and a wonderful husband. We have a home which is warm and cozy and ours.
    It may be small for our purposes, but we have it. But we are currently pursuing a larger home in town, and I feel selfish for wanting this.
    Am I supposed to feel this way?


Wednesday, 19 November 2008

  • What I believe really is Lying

    My husband thinks I have issues, and loves me anyway. One of the big ones is my view of honesty. It is hard for him to fathom complete naked honesty. He and I are different this way.
    • All lies, black, red, white, ARE LIES.
    • Dodging the truth is a lie.
    • Lies of omission are lies, sometimes the worst.
    • Not telling someone something that directly affects their lives is a lie. (ie: not sharing pertinent information which will influence the actions of another party is akin to salesmanship. LIE.
    • Lies and deception ny action are the selfsame.
    So basically I tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth at all times. f there is a reason for me to be dodging the truth then in reality the person I am affecting with that dodge deserves EVEN MORE to know the truth. That's why emotions run so high when a person is lying, because they know it is wrong.
    I have told my husband things which would have been "better left unsaid" (by common standards) because I am brutally honest. Even if it rips me apart, and looks  like the outcome is bad, I still tell the truth.   
    I have been paid back in kind and in horror. But I am right with myself and my God.
    In order to be forgiven any sin, you must ask. To ask you must speak the truth. nothing can come of dishonesty.
    (Yes my kids believe in santa, but I have never out and told them I knew it to be true, and thier father insisted. I feel guily about it, but I feel guiltier about breakin thier hearts now, so close to suddenly knowing. youngest is 7.)

  • We Arrived Naked and We Leave Naked: The Theology of Zero | revelife
    This article on the revelife home page made me think about my blessings, and thank God for them.
    Thanks for the article!

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Thursday, 06 November 2008

  • Illegal Abortion

    I am pro-life without a doubt. But I am also Pro-choice. Perhaps we are right as Christians that abortion is murder, but do we have a right to force people of other beliefs to follow our "rules?" I was 19 and unmarried when I had my first child, and although the father was by my side, Marriage was out of the question, as there was no lasting love involved. (and by the grace of God, I knew it) I had three more children with the same man before I was 29. The only time I considered abortion was with the last, and that was a fear reaction, as neither myself or the child were supposed to survive. I still feel guilty every time I think about that fleeting thought.
    But God was working in my life and did not allow that momentary thought to develop into action. I was able to bring the baby to full term and now she is a happy and healthy 7 year old.
    Here is my thought. If I had closed my heart to God and gone through with the abortion, I would have had it in a sterile, safe environment. My first three children would have still had a mother.(which was the whole point, and the reason I momentarily considered) If the act were outlawed, then I would have died trying to protect those three. Evil is present and Murder will happen. Abortionists do not tempt women with their wares. They are not on the street corners with overcoats and coat hangers. Women who abort do not do it out of flippancy or disrespect for life. Overall the decision to abort cost her dearly, and she does not want to do it. But If she makes her decision, the clinics are there for her. They are there, privately, quietly offering protection from Butchers and Infection. This is one issue to fraught with emotion to be handled by anyone but the government. Separation of Church and state was created for issues just like this.

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