My husband thinks I have issues, and loves me anyway. One of the big ones is my view of honesty. It is hard for him to fathom complete naked honesty. He and I are different this way.
- All lies, black, red, white, ARE LIES.
- Dodging the truth is a lie.
- Lies of omission are lies, sometimes the worst.
- Not telling someone something that directly affects their lives is a lie. (ie: not sharing pertinent information which will influence the actions of another party is akin to salesmanship. LIE.
- Lies and deception ny action are the selfsame.
So basically I tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth at all times. f there is a reason for me to be dodging the truth then in reality the person I am affecting with that dodge deserves EVEN MORE to know the truth. That's why emotions run so high when a person is lying, because they know it is wrong.
I have told my husband things which would have been "better left unsaid" (by common standards) because I am brutally honest. Even if it rips me apart, and looks like the outcome is bad, I still tell the truth.
I have been paid back in kind and in horror. But I am right with myself and my God.
In order to be forgiven any sin, you must ask. To ask you must speak the truth. nothing can come of dishonesty.
(Yes my kids believe in santa, but I have never out and told them I knew it to be true, and thier father insisted. I feel guily about it, but I feel guiltier about breakin thier hearts now, so close to suddenly knowing. youngest is 7.)
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